It’s been 40 years now since Kinsey lit the fuse

It’s been 40 years now since Kinsey lit the fuse

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Originally published 31 May 1993

When Alfred Kin­sey’s Sex­u­al Behav­ior in the Human Male came out in 1948, I was 11 years old and just begin­ning a long fas­ci­na­tion with the mys­tery of mysteries.

Of course, the infa­mous book nev­er appeared in our house, but it was impos­si­ble not to be aware of its pub­li­ca­tion. Kin­sey’s name was on every­one’s lips. With­in 10 days of the book’s release 185,000 copies were in print — and this an osten­si­bly sci­en­tif­ic work. The so-called “Kin­sey Report” was a best-seller.

Over the next few years, every ado­les­cent boy in Amer­i­ca man­aged to sneak a peek at the for­bid­den book. How long was the aver­age penis? How often did boys mas­tur­bate? At what age did Amer­i­can males have their first coital expe­ri­ence? Sci­ence had proved we were nor­mal after all — nei­ther too short, too often, or too late.

With what seemed for­tu­itous tim­ing, Kin­sey’s Sex­u­al Behav­ior in the Human Female appeared five years lat­er, when I was 16 and just begin­ning to pass from pri­vate fan­tasies to exper­i­ments with girls. The sec­ond vol­ume was a rev­e­la­tion. Women, it turned out, were sex­u­al crea­tures too, with many of the same pre­oc­cu­pa­tions as men — and cer­tain fas­ci­nat­ing dif­fer­ences. Kin­sey’s vol­ume, thick with graphs and charts, pro­nounced a sec­u­lar bene­dic­tion upon our heavy-breath­ing pur­suit of sex­u­al bliss.

I was remind­ed of all this by David Hal­ber­stam, writ­ing in the May/June [1993] issue of Amer­i­can Her­itage about the men and women of the 1950s who insti­gat­ed the Sex­u­al Rev­o­lu­tion. Hal­ber­stam begins with Kin­sey, moves on to Pill-doc­tors Goody Pin­cus and John Rock, and then to Mar­i­lyn Mon­roe, Hugh Hefn­er, Grace Met­al­ious, and Bet­ty Friedan. Accord­ing to Hal­ber­stam, sci­ence lit the fuse that set the whole thing off.

Inspired by the Amer­i­can Her­itage arti­cle, I went to the sex sec­tion of my col­lege library, where I found Kin­sey’s two red vol­umes, tat­tered, for­lorn, show­ing their age, sur­round­ed by a hun­dred glossy new­er books cat­a­loging and expli­cat­ing every nuance of human sex­u­al behav­ior. Could it real­ly be 40 years?

When you think about it, it is quite aston­ish­ing that one of the most fun­da­men­tal phe­nom­e­na in our lives was for so long off-lim­its as a sub­ject for sci­en­tif­ic inves­ti­ga­tion. In the intro­duc­tion to his book, Kin­sey took note of the dearth of sci­en­tif­ic infor­ma­tion about human sex­u­al­i­ty. He point­ed out that more was known about the sex­u­al behav­ior of farm and lab­o­ra­to­ry ani­mals than of humans.

Kin­sey com­pared the pauci­ty of sci­en­tif­ic stud­ies with the vast wealth of philo­soph­i­cal, moral, lit­er­ary, artis­tic, and porno­graph­ic mate­ri­als on sex. He wrote: “It is, at once, an inter­est­ing reflec­tion of man’s absorb­ing inter­est in sex, and his astound­ing igno­rance of it; his desire to know and his unwill­ing­ness to face the facts.”

Alfred Kin­sey was an unlike­ly rev­o­lu­tion­ary. He was a stol­id Mid­west­ern­er with a crew cut and bow tie. As a kid he was an Eagle Scout. He mar­ried the first woman he ever dat­ed and stayed mar­ried to her all his life. He col­lect­ed stamps. He did­n’t smoke, and rarely drank. He had more than 100,000 miles on the Buick that he drove most of his life. In a word, he was the typ­i­cal bor­ing old scientist.

He was, in fact, pro­fes­sor of zool­o­gy at Indi­ana University.

His wife, Clara, some­times told friends, “I hard­ly see him at night any more since he took up sex.”

Wardell Pomeroy, Kin­sey’s sci­en­tif­ic col­lab­o­ra­tor and a co-author of the Report, wrote: “We were work­ing for a genius who mad­dened us, delight­ed us, drove us to the point of exhaus­tion, but most of all inspired us to share some­thing of his total ded­i­ca­tion. Our grand design, in sim­plest terms, was to try to find out — by means of face-to-face inter­view­ing fol­lowed by sta­tis­ti­cal analy­sis of the facts we had col­lect­ed — what peo­ple did sexually.”

In the late 1940s and ear­ly ’50s, what peo­ple did sex­u­al­ly was a big, dark secret. And that, accord­ing to Kin­sey’s crit­ics, was the way it should stay. The Report was con­demned by church groups, sci­en­tists, aca­d­e­mics, con­ser­v­a­tives, lib­er­als — a tes­ta­ment to the uni­ver­sal­i­ty of human ambiva­lence about sex. “It is impos­si­ble to esti­mate the dam­age this book will do to the already dete­ri­o­rat­ing morals of Amer­i­ca,” preached Bil­ly Gra­ham, and his words were echoed by an out­raged chorus.

Few of the self-appoint­ed guardians of Amer­i­can virtue were will­ing to admit that Amer­i­cans were quite so sex­u­al­ly active, in such unap­proved ways, as Kin­sey’s sta­tis­tics indi­cat­ed. The graphs and tables of data were con­sid­ered in them­selves to be incite­ments to immoral­i­ty. Kin­sey’s vol­ume on female sex­u­al behav­ior was even more furi­ous­ly con­demned than the first book. Women, in par­tic­u­lar, were not sup­posed to be sex­u­al­ly active.

In the face of the storm of crit­i­cism, the Rock­e­feller Foun­da­tion, head­ed by Dean Rusk, ter­mi­nat­ed fund­ing for Kin­sey’s Insti­tute for Sex Research. Kin­sey respond­ed by work­ing even hard­er. His health fal­tered. Three years after pub­li­ca­tion of Sex­u­al Behav­ior in the Human Female he was dead, at age 62.

It was a case of killing the mes­sen­ger for the message.

Alfred Kin­sey care­ful­ly refrained from mak­ing moral judg­ments about sex­u­al behav­ior. His atti­tude was that of detec­tive Joe Fri­day: “The facts, Ma’am, just the facts.” Sci­ence described, he said, not pre­scribed. He would prob­a­bly be sur­prised to find him­self includ­ed by David Hal­ber­stam as one of the peo­ple who made the Sex­u­al Rev­o­lu­tion happen.

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